I am loathe to comment on politics. Posting on facebook with my opinion only serves to join in the joy of people who are already happy while irritating people who are unhappy. I am stuck in the middle of a political halfway place, where my family of choice differs so greatly with my family of birth.
I have no great desire to get into debates about DOMA. My viewpoint is clearly and firmly planted on one side of the issue. I will never understand the opposing faction and I hear no argument that makes absolutely one bit of sense to me. I will love them but I will always be saddened by their viewpoints.
The abortion bill being so hotly debated in Texas is another. To say that being pro-choice is the equivalant of being pro-abortion is so alarmingly reductive that I won't even address anyone who wants to make that statement. So let's move on.
My biggest quandry about this debate is the statement made by conservatives that "all life" should be protected. I truly understand the facts about the development of a baby in the womb. I am not simply uninformed about the whole process. Abortion is an ugly thing. I know of no one who takes the subject or the idea of it lightly. Then why am I pro-choice? I believe because I can be put in a different category with the same title. I want "all life" protected. Have I confused my own issue? Let me be clear. A baby is not born in or unto a thing. It is brought forth to life, from life. This life can not be forgotten and so neither can all the lives that have already been disconnected from their mother's womb. The conservative agenda does not seem to spend much energy on the lives already being lived. Lives that come with a multitude of circumstances and psychological burdens. Conservatives don't want to give "handouts." If you aren't living the american dream, it's no concern of theirs. Wealth and health are for the lucky or the strategic. A child with no home and no food is not protected by a conservative political ideology. As long as you are alive, why is it important how shitty your life turns out to be? Someone has to be on the bottom, right? Well, women are not simply creators of life, they are people, people who make decisions for reasons that we absolutely must concern ourselves with.
I will stand with conservatives who want to end abortion but only when they begin to tirelessly work to eradicate the following first:
1. Women are no longer victims of violence; rape, physical abuse, mental abuse, etc.
2. The mental burdens that cause people to abuse children are eradicated. When every child is loved in a safe environment.
3. Children are not exposed to poverty whatever the reason.
4. No one in this country (or the world for that matter) goes hungry (mentally AND physically).
5. When adoption is feasible for every single child and there is no such thing as an orphanage.
6. When every parent is a good parent.
7. When every person despite their circumstances can be paid a living wage.
8. Adoption is not seen as shameful.
9. Men always take 50% of the responsibility for the consequences of sex.
10. The 100 other things I can't think to list.
I don't like living in a world where a woman feels she must have an abortion. But I live in this world and I can not just ignore what comes after we force a woman to bring life into the world.
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